When I first started in the helping profession. I was single-with a lot of dreams about my ideal life. I learned early that this is a one way ticket. I did not buy into ideas about coming back in the next life to redo, complete, or resolve stuff. I had to get really good at planning and executing the plan, "only the forces of nature will deter me," I would say to my friends. They kept saying stop being too serious. You take life too seriously. I would quite agree with them, after all I figued that we are all just wired differently. It is either mainly our environment or what we inherit through the bloodlines or a bit of both.
These days it is both and then some-however we choose to reinvent ourselves, for those of us who realize by now that a reinvention is necessary after fighting off the scars of stuff that happened along the way or just like peeling an onion the more layers you take off, the more your eyes burn. Maybe a better example would be your favorite fruit with a seed, you know the core. Although getting there might even be a bit messy, you just gotta get a to the seed. We all need to get that seed and it would be best to plant it so that we can benefit from it when it bears. This is why I wellcome "life's little stuff "now. I say little because it is only soooh big untill the next bolder comes.
